Sunday, November 23, 2008

A Challenge

Once again this morning... something I read sparked a fire under my ass..

So here it is .. this really pissed me off first thing this morning..

Below is a google alert I received for Parent Alienation

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The new mental disorders?

Atlanta Journal Constitution - GA, USA

Not real, says the National Organization for Women: “Parental alienation really is a dangerous and cleverly marketed legal strategy that has caused much ...

See all stories on this topic

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This post is being posted not only as one of those posts that make ya go Hmmmm

But to ask the National Organization for Women (NOW) how they sleep at nite knowing how many abused women have been alienated from their children that they NOW refuse to help- I speak from experience (In 2003 I contacted them pleading for help as an abused woman who was being alienated from my children by my abuser - although at the time I didn't know anything about Parent Alienation or the devastating results that our children suffer Parent Alienation Syndrome.

So here goes.. the question of the century... for any member of NOW that would like to answer.

How can you oppose Parent Alienation and Parent Alienation Syndrome so desperately when on the flip side you are comfortable saying that men are using the system to abuse women and are successful.. then you go on to state that women can and do become alienated/estranged from their children in situations where abuse and divorce collide .. but you stand firm that PA/PAS is a "cleverly marketed legal strategy that has caused much ..."

I'd like to as you to take a moment and listen to yourselves.. your argument is ridiculous.. insulting.. and dangerous to all.. ESPECIALLY ABUSED SPOUSES AND OUR CHILDREN!

Note in the above paragraph I used the word ABUSED SPOUSES not abused women.

Therein lies the problem in my not so humble opinion ...

If (most of) these groups would stop acting like mindless, spineless, robots that simply repeat what the head masters script says .. they would see that both men and women abuse.. both men and women get abused, both men and women, usually with some kind of serious personality disorder can and will alienate/align the children and most importantly... OUR CHILDREN ARE BEING ABUSED BY THE MILLIONS AS A RESULT OF THOSE GROUPS .. INSANE CONTROVERSY!

Now don't listen to me .. I'm a 6th grade uneducated ass hole .. what do I know.. (shrug)

Research the topics below for yourself..

First take a look at my detailed definition on the who what when where and why ...
of Parent Alienation Syndrome in this link...
Disgusted with the system: Parent Alienation Syndrome

This link below is another mom that has been alienated and her version of the Obsessed Alienator ..
http://parentalalienation.blogspot.com/2008/11/understanding-obsessive-alienator-part.html

Then if any one's been paying attention.. NOW claims that what happens to alienated children is Stockholm Syndrome or Trauma Bonding ..

So on that note -- take a look at Dr. L.F. Lowenstein's 2006 article below..
The comparison of parental alienation to "Stockholm syndrome

Then take a look at some articles on Trauma Bonding ...
Trauma Bonding : The Pull to the Perpetrator

Don't miss these articles Parts 1-4 on PAS -
Disgusted with the system: PARENT ALIENATION 1 2 3 and 4 OF 4 written by Mitchell Rosen

Also don't miss this link.. where you will hear from an ex female alienator and an adult child of alienation ... Disgusted with the system: Alienation

Another great article - by Dr Amy Baker-
Disgusted with the system: Parent Alienation Syndrome- The Parent/Child Disconnect

Here you will find an excerpt from a Dr treating an adult survivor of being alienated back in the 1940's where he describes what happens to those children and what they felt while siding with/ aligned with or being alienated from ..
Disgusted with the system: The life-long lasting effects of PAS noted in 1948?

Here you can read about my wake up call..
Disgusted with the system: Just Realizing I was a Victim of Parent Alienation Syndrome

Here you can read about - the realization I had just before I was diagnosed with Complex Post Traumatic Disorder - all related to being the victim of an abuser - first by DV then by his alienating my children with his political connections help.

Disgusted with the system: What happened to that spark?

The read the links below on what it's like to suffer from Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
Disgusted with the system: Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Disgusted with the system: Search results for complex post traumatic stress disorder

Ok here's the challenge for those within the "NOW" or anti PA/PAS groups...

WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE WHAT YOU CALL IT -- OUR CHILDREN AND THE TARGET PARENT (EITHER MALE OR FEMALE) ARE BEING ABUSED BY CULT LIKE SOCIOPATHS/MALIGNANT NARCISSISTS WHILE THE REST OF US SIT AROUND WITH OUR FINGERS UP OUR ASSES FIGHTING A GENDER WAR AND A NAME FOR THE ABUSE!

Alternatively, is it all about what happened when Gardner first coined the term PAS.. and immediately NOW stomped their foots and cried .. women don't abuse they are protective parents .. they wouldn't dare be evil enough to turn children against their father..

PLEASE PEOPLE WAKE UP BEFORE TO MANY MORE LIVES AND GENERATIONS ARE DESTROYED!

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1 comment:

Robert Gartner said...

Louise,
Now that N.O.W. has named and exhausted the 'male_ female' differences, it would seem that it cannot include similarities, within its purview of what a womam needs. Gosh do they ever talk about a woman needing a man and how? Or how similar a man is to a woman? Etc... Hence, the clinging to gender attachment, like what Anne Wilson Schaef in writing, When Society Becomes An Addict, Harper and Row, 1986, realized, faulted her understandings when she found the essence of truth to be much larger than some gender ascription. Indeed, it is but another symptom of addiction to cling to gender ascriptions to explain away some perceived problem. Doing so, results in what you stated: missing the problem. Its a rabbit trail of denial.
I am another such statistic. I am a man whose abusive mother got and ruined our daughter, after I had successfully raised her in the face of constant abuse for five and a half years. At 23 now, she still cannot speak, after not having seen me or talked for the past seventeen.