tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post4510095032145853431..comments2023-10-16T06:57:51.220-04:00Comments on Disgusted with the system: Parent Alienation Leaves bruises deep insideZoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-53232972725215097752009-04-02T21:47:00.000-04:002009-04-02T21:47:00.000-04:00I see one of the brave anonymous trolls has done a...I see one of the brave anonymous trolls has done a drive-by smear on me. I'm always interested in the motives of these people. They call it junk science but you know what - in the whole history of this so called debunking only one participant in the denial side had a PHD in Social Work and could come close to saying she had a science background. She was from Michigan and got shot down in flames on an appeal by a lawyer who was also a psychologist. <BR/><BR/>I mentioned earlier these trolls get all their info from places like the Liz Library or from radical feminist's like Joan Meier who was shot down over her misinformation in a PBS documentary a few years back trying to debunk PAS. This person teaches law but she knows nothing about science. <BR/><BR/>They get hung up on the word syndrome. Did they ever check the DSM. Maybe the trolls could let me know if any one of the maladies listed in it has syndrome after it. None of these people have ever read it as far as I can tell. PAS has passed all of the legal tests to be used in court but then these trolls come back and say the courts are corrupt. The courts need fixing but it isn't because of PA. Lot of food for thought. <BR/><BR/>Most of them have been visiting my blog for years now and they keep hoping I'll go away. Not any time soon I hope. It gives me a certain perverse satisfaction to know I get under their skin.<BR/><BR/>I'll keep doing it for as long as deniers exist and I can finish rescuing my children from a mentally ill woman.<BR/><BR/>You are strong Louise. We've rattled them today and hopefully I will tomorrow and the next day. They are the abusers and inside they know it.Michael J. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01576687584409641503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-25438769219177780542009-04-02T19:42:00.000-04:002009-04-02T19:42:00.000-04:00Just an FYI,for the woman warning me above.. Excha...Just an FYI,for the woman warning me above.. <BR/><BR/>Exchanging a few online sentences with someone is NOT aligning. <BR/><BR/>My thoughts are my own.. your thoughts are you own.. his thoughts are his own<BR/><BR/>However, when it comes to children getting hurt because the women's groups can't find a politically correct way to back out of the "theory" that PA/PAS is junk science, that's when all bets are off in my book! <BR/><BR/>So don't you worry about who I'm talking to or what I believe.. <BR/><BR/>KNOW that my conclusions are based on FACTS.. facts that I researched MYSELF unlike the "theory" that PAS is junk science which is a contridiction claiming that abusers don't feel entitled enough to alienate.. <BR/><BR/>Tell me how much do you know about abusive personalities? Enmeshed families, why dysfunction breeds dysfunction.. oh I can go on and on.. but you get the picture don't you? <BR/><BR/>You might want to spend some time doing your own research on dysfunction and YOUR role in an abusive relationship... then work on YOU and don't worry about me.Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-61627600826420246762009-04-02T19:23:00.000-04:002009-04-02T19:23:00.000-04:00Louise don't be taken in by the oil slick that goe...Louise don't be taken in by the oil slick that goes by the name of Michael Murphy. Do some research, he is a Fathers Rights campaigner who has chosen to denigrate not only his wife but his children as well. You are aligning with an abuser.<BR/>Interesting how he denies the comments made by Richard Gardner on child sexual contact, when it is all out there for anyone to read and he is widely quoted. I understand your situation Louise but instead of blindly following a junk science that is used mostly by fathers (Gardner writes this himself) realise that what happened to you and your children is an abuse. Fight back but don't use theories that can be shot down in flames.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-36367827135562301902009-04-02T18:58:00.000-04:002009-04-02T18:58:00.000-04:00I've actually met Katrina in the City. She was at ...I've actually met Katrina in the City. She was at the play on parent alienation (right this min. I can't remember the name). <BR/><BR/>I agree she is amazing and beautiful! <BR/><BR/>I have not had the pleasure of meeting Lisa yet tho.Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-80226765007492703272009-04-02T18:56:00.000-04:002009-04-02T18:56:00.000-04:00I couldnt have said it better myself... They can't...I couldnt have said it better myself... <BR/><BR/>They can't find a graceful way out.. <BR/><BR/>What a shame they are willing to continue the destruction of man woman and children at any expense!Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-21895994811955961472009-04-02T18:55:00.000-04:002009-04-02T18:55:00.000-04:00I forgot to mention I met, among others, two very ...I forgot to mention I met, among others, two very strong and resilient women from across the river from you in Ridgewood, NJ. Katrina Daniels Lee and Lisa Marzullo who are co-founders of the Lee PAS Foundation at www.theleepasfoundation.org. Katrina spoke briefly about her trial with her ex and the struggles she has seeing her children. Lis is one of the strongest women I've had the pleasure to meet.<BR/><BR/>If you get the chance to talk to them do so. They have dramatic stories to tell which are incredibly difficult for any one to deal with but they are troopers.I was glad to have had a chance to talk to Lisa - she is an amazing woman and mom.Michael J. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01576687584409641503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-12472607727622291172009-04-02T18:48:00.000-04:002009-04-02T18:48:00.000-04:00I have read the book. Its tragic. She gave copies ...I have read the book. Its tragic. She gave copies to all the attendees at the symposium and I had a chance to chat with her briefly while she autographed the book. I now have two copies. The non-autographed one will be kept in reserve for a gift to someone.<BR/><BR/>She is a woman of great presence and dignity. I had seen her before on TV and she's just the same in person.<BR/><BR/>I do find it interesting these deniers don't understand the malady is not gender specific. I think they have gotten into the ideology so deeply, as Dr. Gardiner found mostly females were alienators, they can't find a way out gracefully.<BR/><BR/>Such is life when an ideology pursues and overtakes reason. The Turnbull decision last year in Ontario, where I live, was a very bad dad alienator losing custody. I guess it must be something other than PAS to them as well or they would be trumpeting the decision.<BR/><BR/>Best wishes.Michael J. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01576687584409641503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-91489226338406264552009-04-02T17:48:00.000-04:002009-04-02T17:48:00.000-04:00Have you read Pamala's book - A kidnapped mind? He...Have you read Pamala's book - A kidnapped mind? <BR/><BR/>Her story parallels mine as far as the political connections and the judges ignoring her and her son's mental health. <BR/><BR/>I pray for her daily.<BR/><BR/>As for the deniers.. it's scarey watiching someone in such denial that they actually believe.. it's surreal..<BR/><BR/>They just don't get it!Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-43932494389297374512009-04-02T17:31:00.000-04:002009-04-02T17:31:00.000-04:00Louise:I see the Gender Feminist Trolls have left ...Louise:<BR/><BR/>I see the Gender Feminist Trolls have left their drive-by smears of Dr. Gardiner and PAS. These trolls show up on the gender feminist sites spouting stuff for which they know nothing about - except maybe they found some misinformation in the Liz Library. Cold North Wind was quoting wolves on a misandry site earlier this week little thinking her comparisons were "out to lunch" She forgot that the head of the wolf pack was the dominant male. Talk about patriarchy.<BR/><BR/>These trolls, Luddites, deniers all use the same silly rhetoric that revolves around taking snippets of Dr. Gardiner's work and then pasting them together to make it look like he actually said it. Its like taking sound bytes from someones many speeches and then editing them together to make a completely new statement.<BR/><BR/>The gender feminists have an agenda and they are getting paranoid (worse than before) because some of them may lose entitlements, not to mention custody, if things like shared and equal parenting come along and judges understand the emotional turmoil of children being abused by narcissistic mentally ill alienators. I always want to meet deniers in person so I can study their body language while trying to look me in the eye with their deceitful message. <BR/><BR/>They in fact become enablers of abuse by denying this terrible emotional mental cruelty exists.<BR/><BR/>I like your responses. Being civil to some of these malcontented propagandists of gender feminism is not necessarily something one should always try given their Luddite behaviour.<BR/><BR/>We shall soldier on. I was at the symposium and saw the palpable trauma on the faces of targeted parents including but not limited to Pamela. Many were female.Michael J. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01576687584409641503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-54049518249286703522009-04-02T16:20:00.000-04:002009-04-02T16:20:00.000-04:00I have gone through a year and a half of litigatio...I have gone through a year and a half of litigation and been allowed only four hours with my son who is now a year old....ligitization proceedings...cases in both superior and district court and yesterday I made the mistake of believing that a judge would listen to a man and see the lies and deception that has been used over this time to keep me from my son. I have been painted as one of the most horrible, twisted, unstable men that has walked the face of the planet...all lies, I tell you honestly. Never in my life have I felt so horrible about myself and been hurt so badly by a woman that I once loved. A woman who is evidently so sick that even those directly around her can't see it nor do they care to do anything about it and my son is suffering for it. The judicial system doesn't care. Judges don't care about the truth and what is right. I have been given an hour of supervised visitation twice a month. How is this fair?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-47676331710257981402009-04-02T13:05:00.000-04:002009-04-02T13:05:00.000-04:00Oh and thanks for pointing out the typo.. it's bee...Oh and thanks for pointing out the typo.. it's been fixed.Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-69345931468863779462009-04-02T13:03:00.000-04:002009-04-02T13:03:00.000-04:00I'll bet your as disgusted with my opinion as you ...I'll bet your as disgusted with my opinion as you stated here...<BR/>DISGUSTED WITH IGNORAMUS' LIKE YOU!<BR/><BR/>As I am disgusted with your co-dependent parroting without doing your own UNBIASED homework on the subject! <BR/><BR/>Have a wonderful day!Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-7202975085216612502009-04-02T13:00:00.000-04:002009-04-02T13:00:00.000-04:00What are "bruses"...I think if you're going to go ...What are "bruses"...I think if you're going to go around touting JUNK SCIENCE you should at least be LITERATE!<BR/><BR/>I suppose the mother who BEGGED the judge to not allow her sons to go with their dad had PAS?<BR/><BR/>You Madam have a view that is not even shared with the APA or is in the DSM and the best part....IT NEVER WILL BE!<BR/><BR/>Do yourself and others a favor and actually research about Dr. Richard Gardner or Warren Farrell. Then ask yourself if you can actually say that PAS is something that is really used the right way and not by against angry abusive ex fathers.<BR/><BR/>Ask the mother of the Castillo children, The Leichtenberg boys, Olivier and Isabelle Gaston...too many to list of all the children that were placed into the hands of their father and MURDERED by court order! Let's see what kind of answer you'd get....Get REAL!<BR/>DISGUSTED WITH IGNORAMUS' LIKE YOU!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-77234575685177327892009-04-02T12:29:00.000-04:002009-04-02T12:29:00.000-04:00Are you sure those are your thoughts? Have YOU inv...Are you sure those are your thoughts? Have YOU investigated PA/PAS YOURSELF? Or are you the typica co-dependent that needs to be part of a group (Domestic Violence groups) that are hurting women and children everywhere with the help of those like YOU! Who parrot the agenda of federally funded women's groups without any personal accountability to what PA/PAS is doing to the next generation? <BR/><BR/>I believe that your a parrot for them and have not done your own homework.. that's ok the world needs parrots otherwise the truth would be known!Zoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-410242618191324162009-04-02T11:55:00.000-04:002009-04-02T11:55:00.000-04:00Much the same happened to my two female children-w...Much the same happened to my two female children-when I left the x to protect them from incest and myself from losing my life.<BR/><BR/>BUT never in a million years would I, nor did I, "use" pas -the abuser did. NEVER would I touch a -theory that has such a noxious provenance.And now- a noxious history. This -idea-is primarlily used by abusers against protective mothers. A bad bad bad idea. Those who use it- are tainted with abuser and pro-abiser status.Cold North Windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05404572631476598133noreply@blogger.com