tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post3480710547208405312..comments2023-10-16T06:57:51.220-04:00Comments on Disgusted with the system: TEEN FILES FOR CUSTODY OF YOUNGER BROTHERSZoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-3078225518863049862009-03-10T16:47:00.000-04:002009-03-10T16:47:00.000-04:00Cold North Wind, I have a few questions for you an...Cold North Wind, <BR/><BR/>I have a few questions for you and those others that think like you to ponder. <BR/><BR/>Are you/they aware of the "victim" mindset of black and white thinking? <BR/><BR/>Are you/they actually saying that ALL MEN who claim to be alienated parents are child abusers? <BR/><BR/>Are you/they saying that if I agree PA/PAS is NOT junk science then I'm aligning with ONE MAN (Richard Gardner)who by the way WAS NOT the first to recognise PA/PAS? <BR/><BR/>Isn't your way of thinking BLACK AND WHITE? <BR/><BR/>Perhaps you should read the links below.. <BR/><BR/>'"...ways persons with disturbed characters tend to think." "Disordered characters also tend to perceive things in terms of black-and-white or all-or-none. They might take the position that if they can’t have everything they ask for, they won’t accept anything at all. If someone doesn’t agree with everything they say, they will frame it as not being valued or listened to in any way."' http://counsellingresource.com/features/2008/12/15/extreme-thinking/<BR/><BR/>~~~~~~~~~~~~~<BR/>'"Always" and "never," polar opposite words, tend to characterize the vocabulary of black and white thinkers. Black and white thinking means seeing the world only in terms of extremes. If things aren't "perfect," then they must be "horrible"' '" Falling victim to black and white thinking tends to exacerbate depression, marital conflict, anxiety, and a host of other everyday problems. Give yourself and the ones you love a break and discover the beauty of shades of gray."' http://www.sideroad.com/Self_Help/black-and-white-thinking.html<BR/><BR/>~~~~~~~~~~~<BR/>'" <BR/>When we fall victim to Black and White Thinking, we have mistakenly reduced an entire spectrum of possibilities down to the two most extreme options, each the polar opposite of the other without any shades of grey in between. Often, those categories are of our own creation, and we are attempting to force the world to conform to our preconceptions about what it should look like."' <BR/>The basic attitude which lies behind Black and White Thinking can often play a role with other issues as well, particularly in how we evaluate the state of our lives. People who suffer from depression, even in mild forms, commonly view the world in black and white, categorizing experiences and events in extreme terminology that fits with their generally negative perspective on life."' <BR/><BR/>http://atheism.about.com/od/logicalflawsinreasoning/a/blackwhite.htmZoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9217353884669167836.post-69977194766782431942009-03-10T16:11:00.000-04:002009-03-10T16:11:00.000-04:00Whatever the real story is in these "cases"- it re...Whatever the real story is in these "cases"- it remains that those who use PAS are subscribing to a set of ideas dreamed up in the mind of a propedophilic "man". When anyone allies themselves with PA or PAS- they are -perhaps unwittingly-aligning themselves with child abusers. By the term child abusers, I refer to raping snall children- as an example.When actual events are described- THEN someone can decide,if necessary- if the actions hurt a child. But as soon as pas or pa etc. gets thrown around- ALL credibility goes with it.These invented theories are most often used by abusive men against the protective mothers.Cold North Windhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05404572631476598133noreply@blogger.com