Friday, July 13, 2012

Lower Milford Mom Pleads Guilty to Assaulting Infant Son

Anyone that knows me, knows that I very rarely believe what I read about child abuse, due to the fact that I know (Insert your local child services name here), gets Title IV Federal Funding to protect abused children, which has turned into 'incentives' to produce abused kids for the millions of dollars involved.. so with that said... Do I believe this woman did this? I don't know.. but SOMEONE ABUSED THAT CHILD, and if it is her.. my only wish is that her and I meet in a dark alley one day with no one else around... If it wasn't her.. then whomever it was.. here's your invitation, contact me and I'll come meet you to 'get couch your side choke of the storycouch BS'  (smile), ok all joking aside who ever did this to this baby- deserves to live a long life of others doing the same to them!

LEHIGH COUNTY, PA -- Updated 8:30am:

A local woman charged with attempting to kill her 6-month-old son has pleaded guilty to felony aggravated assault.

Chelsie Grant, 19, of Lower Milford, was arrested in February for systematic abuse of her six-month old son, including twisting and breaking the baby's arms, choking him and shoving objects into his throat.

Grant, who waived her preliminary hearing in late February, pleaded guilty to the lesser offense of felony aggravated assault that can carry a sentence of a minimum of 10 years and a maximum of 20 years. Grant originally was charged with one count of attempted homicide and two counts of felony aggravated assault.

According to the criminal complaint, Grant brought her son to Lehigh Valley Hospital-Cedar Crest on Jan. 12, claiming his father had abused the boy. Emergency room doctors confirmed the boy had several injuries, including a right elbow dislocation and fractures of both arms and legs.

Despite claiming at first that the boy's father caused the injuries, she later confessed to abusing her son. When confessing, Grant reenacted the abuse with a doll. The complaint says Grant "placed one hand on the child's chest and used the other hand to pull the arms of the child as far as she could several times in each direction. She then grabbed the ankles of the victim and twisted them in both directions and pushed both legs up toward the chest of the child and pulled them down forcefully several times."

She also admitted to shoving spoons and paper down the baby's throat.

According to assistant district attorney Anna-Kristie Morffi, Grant’s son is living with his paternal grandparents. Those close to the case say that it is too soon to tell if the boy will have any permanent effects from the abuse.

Original Article: http://uppersaucon.patch.com/articles/lower-milford-mom-pleads-guilty-to-attempted-murder-of-baby?icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl15%7Csec3_lnk2%26pLid%3D178649

Grant remains in custody at Lehigh County Prison. Her sentencing hearing is scheduled for Sept. 11.
Related Topics:Chelsie Grant and Lower Milford Child Abuse

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Wait a second, wait a second... WTF?

Employee Sold More Than Just Burgers

"Wendy's Drive-Thru Worker, Juan Antonio Rosa, Gets Nearly 22 Years For Selling Child Porn"

After I posted the blog above I continued to read the 'AOL News' and I find out this dick-shit-lower than low life scum of the earth is selling kid porn out of a Wendy's drive through? And he has 2 kids? (shaking my head) these stupid fucks are really putting all of the spiritual work I've done on myslef to the test... FUCK THAT- I'd glady bash this mother fuckers head in too with a brick (along with the above abuser), and then ask the universe for forgivness!

Original Article: http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2012/07/13/wendys-drive-thru-worker-gets-nearly-22-years-for-selling-child/?icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl26%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D178657


Sunday, July 8, 2012

Believe None of What You Hear and Half of What You See

In my 50 some-odd years on this planet, I still catch myself ALMOST getting caught up in the moment- half cocked about to go off on some alleged pedophile, or some poor soul with an amazing story of being victimized!

Then I catch myself just in time and I have a reality check- everyone here on this planet is living in their own PERCEPTION OF REALITY!

It matters not how much someone's perception of reality can be justified... what matters most is FACTUAL REALITY as this post will prove... not all of what you hear is in fact REALITY AS IT IS OR WAS!

So, the message here is- don't go off halfcocked and write someone off as a (insert whatever label you want here), until you have un-arguable, un-taintable, un-fabricatable, factual details to come to your own intellectual opinion with.

CHAMPAIGN, Ill. — A Chicago man who spent more than 30 years behind bars before DNA evidence helped overturn his conviction in the rape and killing of a 3-year-old girl was released from prison late Friday, just hours after prosecutors dropped the case against him.

An Illinois appeals court in March had ordered a new trial for 50-year-old Andre Davis after tests found that DNA taken from the scene of the 1980 killing of Brianna Stickle wasn't his. The girl was attacked in Rantoul, about 20 miles north of Champaign.

Davis was released from the super-maximum security prison in Tamms in far southern Illinois around 7:30 p.m., said Illinois Department of Corrections spokeswoman Kayce Ataiyero. Champaign County State's Attorney Julia Rietz had decided earlier in the day not to pursue charges against him.

Judy Royal of the Center on Wrongful Convictions at Northwestern University, which represented Davis, said he was the longest-serving of the 42 people exonerated by DNA evidence in Illinois.

"Mr. Davis served 32 years in prison for a rape and murder he didn't commit," Royal said. "Tamms is a difficult place to do time. He's hoping to rebuild his life, with the support of his family."

It wasn't immediately known if Davis' family was at the prison when he walked out. Davis' father was traveling to Tamms on Friday afternoon and couldn't be reached for comment.

Reitz said that while she didn't doubt the results of the DNA tests, she decided not to retry Davis because of the difficulty in taking a 32-year-old case to trial – not because of those tests.

"After 30 years, witnesses are either deceased, missing or no longer credible to testify," said Rietz, who has been state's attorney in Champaign County since 2004. "Based on the age of the case and the current state of the evidence, we elected to dismiss."

She noted that Davis was twice convicted by juries. His first conviction was overturned because of a mistake made by a bailiff during jury deliberations

Rietz said any further steps in the investigation of Briana's death will be up to police. Rantoul Police Chief Paul Farber did not return a call regarding the status of the investigation.

Davis was arrested shortly after Briana was found on Aug. 8, 1980, in a house on the street where she lived with her mother and stepfather in Rantoul.

According to trial testimony, Davis – who was 19 at the time – was visiting his father in Rantoul. He spent the day the girl died drinking at the home where she was eventually found with the two brothers who lived there. At some point the brothers left, leaving Davis there alone.

Briana's stepfather, Rand Spragg, said he left the girl playing in the family's front yard and last saw her sitting under a tree.

The family later searched for her. She was found in the brothers' home, naked and under bed clothes in a utility room. She died that night at a local hospital.

DNA testing wasn't available in 1980. But in 2004, Davis requested that evidence gathered at the scene of Briana's death be DNA tested.

According to the tests, blood and semen found at the scene weren't from Davis. That led to the March appellate court decision.

Friday's planned release caught Davis' attorneys off guard. Most were on vacation, expecting that he might be released next week.

Royal, who works closely with Davis' lead attorney, Jane Raley, didn't represent him. She wasn't sure what plans Davis had, but she said that after so many years he was fortunate that family members were still alive to greet him and help him acclimate to life outside prison.

"A lot of times when people are incarcerated for lengthy periods of time, family members die," Royal said. "That is one good thing, that he will have their support."

 "I think it's difficult for him to know exactly what to do," she added, noting that the Center on Wrongful Convictions works with the people it helps free to aid in their adjustment. "I know that he's very intelligent and he has been assisting in the preparation of his appeal for years and giving some good suggestions in that regard."

Attempts to reach members of Briana's family were not successful.

Original Article..

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/07/07/andre-davis-released_n_1655914.html?icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl1%7Csec3_lnk2%26pLid%3D176662

In closing, this poor man's life was ruined- God only knows how many relationships that were.. are no longer able to be in his life...

I wish him the best and will be sending him healing vibes to move on from this kind of insanity!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Parent Alienation Coaching and Beyond, Now Available

I've spent the last twelve (12) years desperately researching and learning everything there is available to learn about Parent Alienation, and Parent Alienation Syndrome.

First and foremost, I know without any doubt in my mind that "Parent Alienation" and the resulting "Parent Alienation Syndrome" are the work of abusers!

Prior to the term[s] "Parent Alienation", or "Parent Alienation Syndrome" the dynamics of dysfunction and devastation that takes place between two people who have a history of a loving relationship, has been labeled many, many, times before Richard Gardner labeled it "Parent Alienation Syndrome."

Some of the "other labels" that helped me understand the dysfunctional dynamics associated with "Parent Alienation", and or "Parent Alienation Syndrome", when it's being used in reference to the symptoms a child displays are:

(1) Trauma Bonds

(2) Stockholm Syndrome

(3) Cognitive Dissonance

(4) Attachment Disorder

(5) Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)

(6) Dissociative Identity Disorder  (DID)

(7) I Feel Like a Child Syndrome

(8) Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

(9) Delayed Stress Syndrome

(10) Adult Child Syndrome

(11) Adult children of alcoholics

(12) Domestic Violence by Proxy

(13) Learned Helplessness

(14) Emotionally Unavailable

(15) The Ego

(16) Personality Disorders: Psychopath, Narcissist, Co Dependent

(18) Defence Mechanisms: Rationalization, Identification, Displacement, Projection, Regression, Reaction Formation, Repression, Denial....

(19) Parts Integration

(20) Enmeshment

(21) Inner Selves

The list goes on and on...


The depths of understanding such abuse was noting short of exhausting!

I was very lucky in that I had someone by my side to support me emotionally and physically so that I could totally focus on understanding how my babies were turned against me..

And now, a dozen years later, after studying under Tony Robbins, Cloe Madanes in their team effort coaching program Robbins - Madanes Coach Training, as well as studying under Hu Dalconzo in his Holistic Life Coaching program, "Holistic Learning Centers", I've combining everything I've learned through training, research, and life experiences and put it all together to help others crawl out from under the devastation and pain that abusers (both emotional & physical) leave their victims in!


My Personal Empowerment Coaching, covers all aspects of Parent Alienation, and Parent Alienation Syndrome... in addition to empowering anyone that has had any of the above issues in their lives, or in the lives of someone you love!

Contact me at HaveUmistakenMe@aol.com and give me the short version, and I'll give you a number so we can talk in depth!